hello again!
It's a rainy day here. Makes me want to sit, have a blanket wrapped around me and write. So that's exactly what I'm going to do! I've decided today I would tell you about the relationship with the biological mother (Bellatrix) of my step child I had before she decided to change her opinion on me. Now, I know most relationships between bio moms and step moms are pretty much rocky. On the rare occasion there are relationships are awesome and the whole family can co parent together splendidly. I envy these people. I hope one day that I can say that the relationship with bio mom is awesome and we all get along. Sadly though, right now I can't say that. I must admit though, it's not as high conflict and crazy as it used to be. Thank goodness, but we do still have a lot of kinks to work out. So before this little intro gets any longer let's get into it.
If you read my first blog you already know Bellatrix and I were friends in high school. We met in our third period Earth Science class of our freshman year of high school. She was 14 and I was 15. Our friendship was that of typical teenage girls. Talking in class, copying off each others school work, sharing food and secrets, etc. We weren't best friends but we were good friends. I believe (now I'm not 100% sure) that I was one of the first group of people she told about her pregnancy with Jackson. I could be completley wrong though, i could have been the last person. Like I said, we weren't best friends. Now I know for a fact she told me two stories. One was that her and Luis had planned Jackson and the other was that she and her best friend had made a bet on which girl could get pregnant first (Belltatrix won) Either way I thought that this girl was a little nuts to be having sex and planning a baby. I hadn't had even had my first kiss yet! but she was my friend and I wasn't going to just stop being her friend because of her decision to have a baby. To each their own. As freshman year passed she grew in her pregnancy and our friendship remained the same. I had met Luis, in my opinion he was a wild person who wore toooooooo much black, but what did my opninion matter? I wasn't having a baby with him. Later I recived an invite to the baby shower and I attended. That was probably the last time I talker to her for 3-4 months. I got no news of Jackson being born or anything like that. I actually didn't talk to her again until the first day of sophomore year. We had a math class together and we both were in drama club and the school play together. As the year passed we become close friends. She would come over my house a few times a month to hang out and bake. We would go to the mall and beach. Text a lot and spend most of our time in class talking. Our math teacher would have to separate us a few times because of how much we were talking, but then after the play was over and drama club ended we didn't see each other as much. We only really talked in our math class. Later in the year I left the school we lost touch, she would call or text me when she was mad at Luis (she had moved into his house during this time) and needed a place to escape to or when she needed a ride somewhere. She would also come over when she needed to use my computer then just leave when she was done. I began together tired of this but, since she had a baby, I felt bad. Eventually we would barley talk. A text message here and there when she needed something. I was getting pretty tired of it. What kind of friend was that? Eventually I just stopped talking to her. What we had wasn't a friendship anymore. I din't hear from her again until the day she found out that Luis and I were dating, and that ladies and gentlemen is another story.
So how am I at this blogging thing? Am I terribly boring? I hope that you guys (if there are any of you) are enjoying it. Thank you again for reading!
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